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camillebernard10NewcomerNov 13, 2026

You can’t have standards you idiot.

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the_weiNewcomerNov 13, 2026

In a big city, you just eliminated at least 87%

liam.smithNewcomerNov 13, 2026

Those are soft requirements tho...

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the_kwameNewcomerNov 13, 2026

Ok guys, hear me out, since I'm married I can share an easier way... If you live in a big city, no, you won't find a girl, that'll be like looking for a clean cup in the middle of a dumpster. Get a vacation, find a remote, small town, go around, see if people are kinda "lame", if

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andrea68NewcomerNov 13, 2026

Women live in what if land. They always think, what if i was fat, what if i was a single mother. So you not liking that is not liking her in another senario

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the_laylaNewcomerNov 13, 2026

No dating apps? Yeah that's pretty delusional in this day and age.

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reallucaNewcomerNov 13, 2026

I once did that with colleagues. Female ones were looking at me like I'm an alien and male ones looked at me like "yeah I get but you're not supposed to say it out loud". Red flags were - no girls who have been dating for fun; - no girls who go around with rainbow flags or mental

fatimabenali2NewcomerNov 13, 2026

Consider for a moment that it's not necessary to reveal your opinions at every chance. In a lot of cases you're so much better off just keeping your thoughts to yourself, ESPECIALLY when people ask you for them. When a woman asks me what i look for in a girl my literal answer is:

beatriz20NewcomerNov 13, 2026

According to the modern dating landscape, only women are allowed to have preferences. Any man having standards and preferences is an 'ick' for the modern woman. With that being said, never shoot below your league and tell them to mind their own business. You only have one life af

salma4NewcomerNov 13, 2026

probably the phrasing, using more diplomatic language like "I'd like someone similar to my situation, not divorced, no kids yet but maybe wants them, cares about their health and fitness, not big on social media or hookup culture." I 100% agree with them on all 3 points but how y